How many of these qualities does your partner/ex/love interest have? 

• If they have a quality SOMETIMES, count it as a half point 

• If they USED TO have a quality but don't currently, count it as a half point

Type your total number below

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IDEAL QUALITIES 

Honest, 

Loyal, 

Reliable, 

Trusting, 

Trustworthy, 

Follow-through with what they say they'll do, 

Patient, 

Kind, 

Generous, 

Prioritizes me, 

Good time management, 

Complimentary lifestyle, 

Appreciates me, 

Responsible, 

Respectful, 

Thoughtful, 

Passionate, 

Overlapping hobbies, 

Healthy boundaries / respects mine, 

Emotionally regulated, 

Confidence, 

Good listener, 

Fun, 

Funny, 

Secure attachment, 

Good communication, 

Makes compromises, 

Self love, 

Emotional intelligence, 

Curiosity, 

Growth mindset, 

Commitment oriented, 

Similar future goals, 

Cares for my safety, 

Self reflective, 

Inspires me, 

Considerate, 

Intelligence, 

Accountability / Apologetic, 

Optimistic, 

Holds me accountable, 

Delayed gratification, 

Adaptable, 

Reasonably selfless, 

Self motivating, 

Mature,

Empathetic,

In synch, 

Good moral / Values, 

Authentic, 

Easy to talk to, 

Feels safe / comfortable, 

You like their vibe, 

Puts in effort

How many of these qualities does your partner/ex/love interest have? 

Type your total number below

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MID TIER QUALITIES 

Complimentary / words of affirmation, 

Spoils me, 

Attractive, 

Shows me off, 

Successful, 

Chemistry / Connection, 

Romantic / Affectionate

How many of these qualities does your partner/ex/love interest have? 

• If they have a quality SOMETIMES, count it as a half point 

Type your total number below

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LOW LEVEL QUALITIES 

Only prioritizes me, 

Jealous, 

Always gives me my way, 

Begrudgingly obliges, 

Eventually concedes, 

Enabling, 

Commiserates, 

Never holds me accountable, 

Pleasure seeking / instant gratification