Current state - SP

Please answer the following questions honestly, based on your current beliefs. If you partially believe a statement, select "50/50."

Don't worry about passing or failing. This is just a way to highlight areas that can be improved.

NOTE: SP stands for specific person, aka the person you want to manifest.

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Self Concept

Please answer the following questions about how you view yourself in your relationship.

Question 2 of 117

1 I am worthy of healthy love

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 3 of 117

2 I am good enough for my SP

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 4 of 117

3 I am a good partner

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 5 of 117

4 I trust my SP

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 6 of 117

5 I do NOT fear abandonment, or believe people leave me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 7 of 117

6 I am NOT afraid of commitment (settling down with 1 person, or choosing the wrong person)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 8 of 117

7 It is safe to love SP fully

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 9 of 117

8 I feel safe when things are good (vs. feeling like something will go wrong)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 10 of 117

9 I did NOT feel like things were too good to be true with my SP

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 11 of 117

10 I get as much effort or attention than I give

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 12 of 117

11 I love as much as I am loved

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 13 of 117

12 I am chosen (if someone is with me, that's it. they're not searching for other options

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 14 of 117

13 I am prioritized (my partner makes/made time for me)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 15 of 117

14 I am good at communicating my thoughts, feelings, and needs to my partner

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 16 of 117

15 I am good with conflict (I don't get angry or avoid the problem)

A

Yes

B

No, I get angry during disagreements

C

No, I avoid voicing my concerns/addressing problems

D

50/50

Question 17 of 117

16 I am comfortable being vulnerable with my partner

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 18 of 117

17 I am an optimist

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 19 of 117

18 I can change anything about myself, including my negative thoughts and feelings

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 20 of 117

19 I can manifest my SP

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 21 of 117

20 Manifestation is easy enough/possible for me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 22 of 117

21 Manifestation is fast enough for me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 23 of 117

22 I am a catch

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 24 of 117

23 I am ready for love

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 25 of 117

24 Love comes easily to me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 26 of 117

25 I am attractive enough to be loved

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 27 of 117

26 I receive loyalty from my partner

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 28 of 117

27 I am whole and complete and happy all on my own

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 29 of 117

28 I believe that good things happen to me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 30 of 117

29 My partners, in general, love me deeply

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 31 of 117

30 I am able to love deeply, in a healthy way, without getting obsessed

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 32 of 117

31 I am easy to get along with

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 33 of 117

32 I am fun to be around

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 34 of 117

33 I am easy to talk to

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 35 of 117

34 I am the best option for my partner

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 36 of 117

35 I am confident and secure

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 37 of 117

36 I expect good things to happen for me, especially with love

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 38 of 117

37 I am good at manifesting

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Specific Person

Please answer the following questions about how you view your specific person.

Question 40 of 117

38 We will be (back) together, in a committed, romantic relationship.

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 41 of 117

39 They are good enough for me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 42 of 117

40 They (still) love me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 43 of 117

41 They are a good partner

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 44 of 117

42 They are honest

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 45 of 117

43 They are loyal

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 46 of 117

44 They trust me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 47 of 117

45 They want commitment

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 48 of 117

46 There is NOT a third party (they are not talking to or dating someone else)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 49 of 117

47 They prioritized me, and will again

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 50 of 117

48 They are good at communicating

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 51 of 117

49 They are good with conflict (they don't get angry or avoid the problem)

A

Yes

B

No, they get angry during disagreements

C

No, they avoid voicing their concerns/addressing problems

D

50/50

Question 52 of 117

50 We have enough in common (hobbies, politics, religion, etc)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 53 of 117

51 They are open to new ideas and change (they are NOT stubborn)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 54 of 117

52 They hear me out and value my opinion

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 55 of 117

53 They are decisive (they know what they want)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 56 of 117

54 They are consistent (reliable, dependable)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 57 of 117

55 Neither of our friends/family get in the way of our relationship

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 58 of 117

56 They do NOT have issues with pride or ego

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 59 of 117

57 Are they mature

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 60 of 117

58 They keep fighting for love when things are hard

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 61 of 117

59 They change for the best

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 62 of 117

60 My person is easy to manifest

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 63 of 117

61 My person is physically healthy

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 64 of 117

62 My person is mentally healthy

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 65 of 117

63 My person is easy to talk to

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 66 of 117

64 My person has a lot of fun with me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 67 of 117

65 My person is very attracted to me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 68 of 117

66 My person is very open with me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 69 of 117

67 My person aligns with me on an emotional level

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 70 of 117

68 My person aligns with me on a moral level

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 71 of 117

69 Me and my person want the same things for our future

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 72 of 117

70 My person is a good listener

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 73 of 117

71 My person is as committed to me as I am to them

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 74 of 117

72 My person is romantic enough for me

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 75 of 117

73 My person shows me love in ways that I like

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 76 of 117

74 My person wants to get back together

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 77 of 117

75 This separation will only draw us closer together

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 78 of 117

76 There is nothing me and my person cannot work through

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

About Love

Please answer the following questions about how you view love.

Question 80 of 117

77 Love is easy to find

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 81 of 117

78 Love is easy to keep

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 82 of 117

79 Love feels good and calm, generally

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 83 of 117

80 Love is safe

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 84 of 117

81 All/most/many exes come back

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 85 of 117

82 Relationships don't take that much work

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 86 of 117

83 People tend to end up with the right person

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 87 of 117

84 Relationships can last forever

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 88 of 117

85 It is safe to trust love

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

About SP's Gender

Please answer the following questions about how you view your SP's gender. (What do you believe for MOST people of their gender.)

Question 90 of 117

86 Their gender is honest

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 91 of 117

87 Their gender is loyal

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 92 of 117

88 Their gender is respectful

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 93 of 117

89 Their gender is consistent and reliable (they do NOT cancel plans or leave you hanging)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 94 of 117

90 Their gender communicates well

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 95 of 117

91 Their gender wants commitment

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Daily Life

Please answer the following questions about your daily life.

Question 97 of 117

92 I am intentionally active at least 20 minutes a day, most days (walking, exercise, yoga, etc.)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 98 of 117

93 I get 7+ hours of sleep most nights

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 99 of 117

94 I have a healthy diet, most days (I do NOT over or under eat. I do NOT eat processed or fast foods.)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 100 of 117

95 I do NOT get drunk/high more than 2 days a week (do not include any prescribed medication side effects)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 101 of 117

96 I feel happy, or at least content, 5 or more days a week

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 102 of 117

97 I am satisfied with my social life

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 103 of 117

98 I make time for mental wellness each week (therapy, support groups, etc.)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 104 of 117

99 I meditate and/or do breathwork daily (or most days)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 105 of 117

100 I regularly make time for passions, hobbies, and learning (personal goals, reading, self-growth, self-expression, expansive activities)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 106 of 117

101 I make time to have fun and relax each week

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Question 107 of 117

102 I do manifestation techniques every day, or most days (only include affirming, scripting, visualizing, and/or gratitude journaling)

A

Yes

B

No

C

50/50

Words

Answer the following questions about how are you speaking about yourself, your SP, and your situation.

Question 109 of 117

103 When I talk about SP, I say:

A

They still love me; things will work out somehow

B

I don’t know how they feel; I don’t know if we’ll ever be together again

C

They don’t want me back; things are over for good

D

I don’t want them back; they don’t deserve me

E

I don’t talk about them

Question 110 of 117

104 When I talk about how I feel about SP, I say:

A

I still love them; we are a great match

B

I miss them so much; I need them back

C

I don’t know how I feel about them anymore

D

I’m so heartbroken; they hurt me so much

E

I’m so mad at them; I can’t forgive them

F

I don’t talk about how I feel

Actions

Answer the following questions about your current actions.

Question 112 of 117

105 What type of TV and moves do you watch?

A

Happy content, or content that shows love in a positive way.

B

Sad content, or content that shows love in a negative way.

C

Neutral content, or content that doesn’t make me feel anything, and doesn’t talk about love.

Question 113 of 117

106 What type of music do you listen to?

A

Happy music that shows love in a positive way.

B

Sad music that shows love in a negative way.

C

Neutral music that doesn’t make me feel anything, and doesn’t talk about love.

Question 114 of 117

107 Do you look at SP’s social media from a place of anxiety/worry/desperation/stalking/missing them?

A

Yes

B

No

C

Somtimes

Question 115 of 117

108 Do you post on your social media to get your SP’s attention?

A

Yes

B

No

C

Sometimes

Question 116 of 117

109 When is the last time you talked to SP?

A

Within the past few days

B

Within the past few weeks

C

Within the past few months

D

We haven’t talked in years

Question 117 of 117

110 When is the last time you saw your SP?

A

Within the past few days

B

Within the past few weeks

C

Within the past few months

D

We haven’t seen each other in years

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