Please answer the following questions honestly, based on your current beliefs. If you partially believe a statement, select "50/50."
Don't worry about passing or failing. This is just a way to highlight areas that can be improved.
NOTE: SP stands for specific person, aka the person you want to manifest.
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Please answer the following questions about how you view yourself in your relationship.
Question 2 of 117
I am worthy of healthy love
Yes
No
50/50
Question 3 of 117
I am good enough for my SP
Question 4 of 117
I am a good partner
Question 5 of 117
I trust my SP
Question 6 of 117
I do NOT fear abandonment, or believe people leave me
Question 7 of 117
I am NOT afraid of commitment (settling down with 1 person, or choosing the wrong person)
Question 8 of 117
It is safe to love SP fully
Question 9 of 117
I feel safe when things are good (vs. feeling like something will go wrong)
Question 10 of 117
I did NOT feel like things were too good to be true with my SP
Question 11 of 117
I get as much effort or attention than I give
Question 12 of 117
I love as much as I am loved
Question 13 of 117
I am chosen (if someone is with me, that's it. they're not searching for other options
Question 14 of 117
I am prioritized (my partner makes/made time for me)
Question 15 of 117
I am good at communicating my thoughts, feelings, and needs to my partner
Question 16 of 117
I am good with conflict (I don't get angry or avoid the problem)
No, I get angry during disagreements
No, I avoid voicing my concerns/addressing problems
Question 17 of 117
I am comfortable being vulnerable with my partner
Question 18 of 117
I am an optimist
Question 19 of 117
I can change anything about myself, including my negative thoughts and feelings
Question 20 of 117
I can manifest my SP
Question 21 of 117
Manifestation is easy enough/possible for me
Question 22 of 117
Manifestation is fast enough for me
Question 23 of 117
I am a catch
Question 24 of 117
I am ready for love
Question 25 of 117
Love comes easily to me
Question 26 of 117
I am attractive enough to be loved
Question 27 of 117
I receive loyalty from my partner
Question 28 of 117
I am whole and complete and happy all on my own
Question 29 of 117
I believe that good things happen to me
Question 30 of 117
My partners, in general, love me deeply
Question 31 of 117
I am able to love deeply, in a healthy way, without getting obsessed
Question 32 of 117
I am easy to get along with
Question 33 of 117
I am fun to be around
Question 34 of 117
I am easy to talk to
Question 35 of 117
I am the best option for my partner
Question 36 of 117
I am confident and secure
Question 37 of 117
I expect good things to happen for me, especially with love
Question 38 of 117
I am good at manifesting
Please answer the following questions about how you view your specific person.
Question 40 of 117
We will be (back) together, in a committed, romantic relationship.
Question 41 of 117
They are good enough for me
Question 42 of 117
They (still) love me
Question 43 of 117
They are a good partner
Question 44 of 117
They are honest
Question 45 of 117
They are loyal
Question 46 of 117
They trust me
Question 47 of 117
They want commitment
Question 48 of 117
There is NOT a third party (they are not talking to or dating someone else)
Question 49 of 117
They prioritized me, and will again
Question 50 of 117
They are good at communicating
Question 51 of 117
They are good with conflict (they don't get angry or avoid the problem)
No, they get angry during disagreements
No, they avoid voicing their concerns/addressing problems
Question 52 of 117
We have enough in common (hobbies, politics, religion, etc)
Question 53 of 117
They are open to new ideas and change (they are NOT stubborn)
Question 54 of 117
They hear me out and value my opinion
Question 55 of 117
They are decisive (they know what they want)
Question 56 of 117
They are consistent (reliable, dependable)
Question 57 of 117
Neither of our friends/family get in the way of our relationship
Question 58 of 117
They do NOT have issues with pride or ego
Question 59 of 117
Are they mature
Question 60 of 117
They keep fighting for love when things are hard
Question 61 of 117
They change for the best
Question 62 of 117
My person is easy to manifest
Question 63 of 117
My person is physically healthy
Question 64 of 117
My person is mentally healthy
Question 65 of 117
My person is easy to talk to
Question 66 of 117
My person has a lot of fun with me
Question 67 of 117
My person is very attracted to me
Question 68 of 117
My person is very open with me
Question 69 of 117
My person aligns with me on an emotional level
Question 70 of 117
My person aligns with me on a moral level
Question 71 of 117
Me and my person want the same things for our future
Question 72 of 117
My person is a good listener
Question 73 of 117
My person is as committed to me as I am to them
Question 74 of 117
My person is romantic enough for me
Question 75 of 117
My person shows me love in ways that I like
Question 76 of 117
My person wants to get back together
Question 77 of 117
This separation will only draw us closer together
Question 78 of 117
There is nothing me and my person cannot work through
Please answer the following questions about how you view love.
Question 80 of 117
Love is easy to find
Question 81 of 117
Love is easy to keep
Question 82 of 117
Love feels good and calm, generally
Question 83 of 117
Love is safe
Question 84 of 117
All/most/many exes come back
Question 85 of 117
Relationships don't take that much work
Question 86 of 117
People tend to end up with the right person
Question 87 of 117
Relationships can last forever
Question 88 of 117
It is safe to trust love
Please answer the following questions about how you view your SP's gender. (What do you believe for MOST people of their gender.)
Question 90 of 117
Their gender is honest
Question 91 of 117
Their gender is loyal
Question 92 of 117
Their gender is respectful
Question 93 of 117
Their gender is consistent and reliable (they do NOT cancel plans or leave you hanging)
Question 94 of 117
Their gender communicates well
Question 95 of 117
Their gender wants commitment
Please answer the following questions about your daily life.
Question 97 of 117
I am intentionally active at least 20 minutes a day, most days (walking, exercise, yoga, etc.)
Question 98 of 117
I get 7+ hours of sleep most nights
Question 99 of 117
I have a healthy diet, most days (I do NOT over or under eat. I do NOT eat processed or fast foods.)
Question 100 of 117
I do NOT get drunk/high more than 2 days a week (do not include any prescribed medication side effects)
Question 101 of 117
I feel happy, or at least content, 5 or more days a week
Question 102 of 117
I am satisfied with my social life
Question 103 of 117
I make time for mental wellness each week (therapy, support groups, etc.)
Question 104 of 117
I meditate and/or do breathwork daily (or most days)
Question 105 of 117
I regularly make time for passions, hobbies, and learning (personal goals, reading, self-growth, self-expression, expansive activities)
Question 106 of 117
I make time to have fun and relax each week
Question 107 of 117
I do manifestation techniques every day, or most days (only include affirming, scripting, visualizing, and/or gratitude journaling)
Answer the following questions about how are you speaking about yourself, your SP, and your situation.
Question 109 of 117
When I talk about SP, I say:
They still love me; things will work out somehow
I don’t know how they feel; I don’t know if we’ll ever be together again
They don’t want me back; things are over for good
I don’t want them back; they don’t deserve me
I don’t talk about them
Question 110 of 117
When I talk about how I feel about SP, I say:
I still love them; we are a great match
I miss them so much; I need them back
I don’t know how I feel about them anymore
I’m so heartbroken; they hurt me so much
I’m so mad at them; I can’t forgive them
I don’t talk about how I feel
Answer the following questions about your current actions.
Question 112 of 117
What type of TV and moves do you watch?
Happy content, or content that shows love in a positive way.
Sad content, or content that shows love in a negative way.
Neutral content, or content that doesn’t make me feel anything, and doesn’t talk about love.
Question 113 of 117
What type of music do you listen to?
Happy music that shows love in a positive way.
Sad music that shows love in a negative way.
Neutral music that doesn’t make me feel anything, and doesn’t talk about love.
Question 114 of 117
Do you look at SP’s social media from a place of anxiety/worry/desperation/stalking/missing them?
Somtimes
Question 115 of 117
Do you post on your social media to get your SP’s attention?
Sometimes
Question 116 of 117
When is the last time you talked to SP?
Within the past few days
Within the past few weeks
Within the past few months
We haven’t talked in years
Question 117 of 117
When is the last time you saw your SP?
We haven’t seen each other in years